Would you go back in time and say thank you to all the people who had hurt you for EVERYTHING that they had done to you? Hey, I don’t blame you, I don’t think I would either, because I bet they wouldn’t even remember what I was talking about…
At the age of 14, I had my very first boyfriend. He was intelligent, smart and cute, at least that was how I saw him…at that point he was Everything I could wish for in a guy, we looked so cute together!! The “relationship” lasted a little over a year because he ended up meeting someone else and breaking up with me to date another girl. Now, can you imagine at 14 years old, to be chosen over someone else? The only thought and feelings I had was:
From that very first “love” experience, I thought I needed to give myself up, to who I truly was so to ensure that the next relationship would work, because showing the REAL ME, was not allowed, he may find someone else BETTER than me and leave me. That was what I thought for most of my life! Isn’t that SAD?
Of course, IT IS !! Who could remain hidden and still be happy all the time? Do you know how draining that is?
The good news is, I was not only able to see this pattern throughout my life and turn it around, as you can DO THE SAME in your life. No need to have ALL these lies in the way.
LOVING AND CLAIMING YOURSELF is a process that you don’t need to do on your own. Do you think I woke up one morning and it was suddenly gone? Absolutely not. I had support, a LOT of support, because I needed direction. I know how this works, as I have been there too, YOU ARE NOT ALONE!
I’m a self-love and empowerment mentor, an Ayurveda counselor and an energy healer. I can give you the tools and support you need to get you going in your journey and give you clarity in your path.
Pm me, I’m more than happy to help you, in YOUR process.